9/14/14

Classroom Presentation

           One of my courageous students presented  a slide show about stuttering to his 5th grade class.  I admit that I  was slow to  assist him in this ambitious project.  I expected his good intentions would  languish on  a wish list. Then he showed me a YouTube video he wrote and directed.  Here was proof that he was  a persistent  and competent young man, very likely to pursue any project to completion.

Wondering what my role would be, I recalled seeing an interview with Bill Belichick, coach of the New England Patriots football team. He said  quarterback Tom Brady knew it all and studied hard. He asked Coach Belichick so many tough questions that coaching him was very challenging. How was I going to coach my talented 5th grader?

I already had a few links to accounts of other children who  had spoken to their classes. [1] But I surfed the "just for kids" section of the Stuttering Home Page looking for inspiration.[2]  I chose only two articles in order to  prepare a thoughtful lesson within a week. This kept me occupied during a long, snowy evening.

I happened to be learning about Google tools and writing a talk for speech language pathologists at a nearby school.[3] I was multi-tasking in researching for my student' s assignment and for my own.  I found two YouTube videos to learn the basics of Google Slides.  One featured a teacher apparently in his home office. He spoke in a soft voice with the sweet sounds of a happy toddler in the background. Another YouTube video, this one intended for small business owners, gave  me a few more helpful tips. Im grateful to these two people who were so generous in sharing their knowledge on the internet.

The  two articles I chose from the Stuttering Home Page were written in very different styles. I read one written by Dr Bill Murphy called Class Presentations for Children Who Stutter. [4] It had an academic attitude and tight structure. It opened  with a premise followed by a lengthy list  of serious content. I took my time reflecting upon the parts of the article consistent with my clinical experience. How could this academic content  translate into a message my young student could quickly absorb?

The other article was FRIENDS Presentation Guide by John Ahlbach.[5] It had emotion,  intuition and humor. It affected me more now than when I read it many years ago. It suited my situation perfectly. John knew a child's perception of the world. His article addressed a  question hugely relevant to the child who stutters: Is it a good idea to hide ones' stuttering? The article  grabbed the readers attention immediately by proposing the issue this way: What if our hair turned green periodically? I read John's article with gratitude and a smile. It had the down-to-earth, friendly attitude I needed. It buoyed my spirits and gave me the energy to return to Dr. Murphy's article for more content.

            Brave children have taught others about stuttering in very public ways. Nate has a recent podcast Stuttering advice for parents, siblings and teachers at Stuttering is Cool[6]. He has a video of a recent class presentation[7] and one from four years ago[8].  (Also, take a look at Parker Mantells 2014 Commencement Speech.[9]) My student, his mother and I watched Nates videos during a speech therapy session. Nates model was absolutely priceless.

The final product was a true collaboration. Per his request, I emailed my template home for him to review and edit. [10] He deleted several of my slides and added his own. This entire process, which busied us for several sessions, fulfilled the requirements of a comprehensive treatment approach. We reviewed cognitive and affective components as we talked about what to put on each slide.  The behavioral goal (practicing speech change)  was satisfied as we rehearsed  the presentation. Im sure this project could meet requirements within the Common Core as well.

 Rehearsal was more difficult than I expected. My student began by denying any need to practice.  Consequently, I needed a way to transition from Nates videos to the present moment. So, I stood up and pretended we were in a classroom and that my student and his mom were students.  I made eye contact, resisted time pressure, reduced speaking rate slightly, paused at phrase boundaries, and talked. Yes , it was pretty humbling to stumble my way through this exercise. But perfection was never the goal. It was more important to have some fun with public speaking.  

            We made videos with my phone. I reviewed only three slides for Take 1.  I smiled alot  and played around with impromptu commentary. After giggling over the results, our attitudes brightened.  We used moms phone to video Takes 2. This time, I added loose, easy voluntary stuttering and modification techniques. I  held up a brochure about famous people who stutter and announced that everyone would  take one home. I had a laminated a poster of the movie The King's Speech[11] to hold up high for the entire class to see that I was in excellent company! My easy repetitions and mild blocks did not accompany any negative affect nor interrupt the flow of information. At this point in the session, my student was experimenting with the slow-motion feature and which made my videos became downright hilarious.  I thought this was a terrific because the project was no longer terrifying. It was great fun.

 Nate's YouTube video showed classmates asking questions.  We brainstormed around this possibility. Mother typed all of this into her laptop for future reference. I was delighted to watch mother and son work together. What success!




[1] J. Butler (8/26/13) Back To School Preparations for Children Who Stutter http://butlerspeechtherapy.blogspot.com/2013/08/back-to-school-preparations-for.html
[3]  J. Butler (3/8/14) Workshop Slides pdf  (This has been removed.)
[4] As I edit this blog post on 9/14/14, I find that the link to Bill Murphys article is broken. The same content appears on the Stuttering Foundation site in the article  Teaching Others http://www.stutteringhelp.org/teaching-others
[7] Nates Stuttering Presentation with Questions (Nov. 30, 2013) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0kxyzOxY3o
[8] Stuttering Presentation (May 8, 2010) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKG2UM_5F_Y
[9] 2014 IU Commencement Speaker: Parker Mantell   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTRAripodJY#t=154
[10] Classroom Presentation pdf (2/19/14) (Removed)
[11] Stuttering Foundation , code 0074 www.stutteringhelp.org

7/18/14

Thinking Aloud with a Listener


      Mistakes. Revisions. Self-reflections. I calculated a set of numbers incorrectly the other day. I realized my error after explaining my computations aloud to a friend. Actually, it wasn't just at that moment. It was several days later, when I happened to recall the conversation. Maybe I was driving here and there and my mind wandered a bit. I "heard" myself explain my calculation to this friend and suddenly realized I had been wrong. The numbers were wrong. Talking aloud to a listener had made me aware of my error.

     Talking aloud is important to me. I talk aloud to memorize information, for example. I talk aloud to solve problems, make plans and ask for opinions and information. I reflect on my conversations with others and sometimes wonder about  comments I made or even thoughts I left unspoken. Have you ever wished you could take back something you've blurted out in an emotional moment? I sure have. Yet, this process is necessary. This trial and error teaches me how  to choose my words differently in the future. I learn about what I think and feel by listening to what I say to others.

     Here's a new perspective (or an old one I only recently realized): stuttering affects the value of talking aloud to listeners in order to understand oneself. 
        
     I'm currently reading Early Chilhood Stuttering by Clinicians for Clincians by Ehud Yairi and Nicoline Grinager Ambrose. It is a comprehensive text, yet somewhere states that stuttering is first a disorder of speech.

Yes. However, as soon as the disorder manifests itself, a variety of consequences ensue - attempts to resolve the problem and cope with the consequences . Attempts to resolve the stuttered speech include a variety of compensatory strategies for talking. The consequences of stuttered speech can include talking less, talking aloud less. I've thought about this in terms of developing social communication skills. Now, I am intrigued by the idea that less talking aloud with listeners may reduce opportunities for self-reflection.

     This process of talking aloud was mentioned on the Diane Rehm radio show recently. Ms Rehm was talking with counselors from addiction treatment programs. One woman referenced "motivational interviewing" as a method  of guiding addicts through stages of change. This method engaged addicts who were not in the action stage yet, but nevertheless wanted help.

     Dr. Nan Ratner introduced motivational interviewing in her presentation at the National Stuttering Association in Washington, D.C.. She advised speech language pathologists to be aware of the stages of change and to learn about motivational interviewing. As a person who has been in therapy, I know first hand the effect of unconditional positive regard and supportive interviewing. It is very different from the judgemental, logical, and downright confrontational discussions one might have with family and peers. I know what it is like to reflect upon my spoken word, reconsider it and then talk aloud about options.

    How can the child who stutters benefit from this process if he/she doesn't talk freely with friends and family? How can this process occur if a child who stutters is fretting over being fluent, dodging sounds and words by all kinds of avoidance tricks?  Here is another reason it is ok to stutter: it may permit the self-expression with which speakers come to know themselves.

Judy


3/21/14

Some thoughts about "um"



Once in a while, I write a letter to a student and his/her family. It is a way  to present my thoughts in a manner I hope will be easy to understand. Here’s my attempt to clarify what I consider to be a case of a child with a mixed language/speech-motor based dysfluency who has been trying to manage it on his own.  Please take a listen to the interview with Joe Donaher on StutterTalk, Episode 436, for some thoughts about different types of stuttering.                  


Dear Student,


This notebook has many language activities in it. You don’t need to do all of the activities in 1 week!  Please try to do at least 2 activities before your next speech therapy visit. Don’t worry about your stuttering when you do these. I want to know how difficult the language tasks were.

I’m giving you Kids’ Big Book of Games (Games Magazine Junior) to take home and keep. I bought it at a library books sale for maybe $1.00, so you might see a little bit of writing in it already. Please keep it in a special place so you can remember to bring it back to speech therapy with you. I want to know which pages you liked, which pages you found easy, and which pages you thought were hard to do.  Don’t worry about your stuttering when you do this book.

 

Here’s what I think:                                        

 

1. Maybe you use alot of “um” to help you say words easily. For example, if you think you might get stuck on the word “dog” in the sentence, “My dog and I played in the snow.”, maybe you would find yourself saying, “My um dog and I played in the snow.” The “um” might give your mouth just enough extra time to day the word dog easily. Maybe you would pause to stop and think and take your time too. Some kids who stutter do this.

 

2. Or maybe you use alot of “um” to help you remember the word you know you want to say but you can’t think of fast enough. You can picture you and your dog in your head, and you know you want to talk about playing in the snow with your dog, but when you say the sentence, the word “dog” got lost in your head somewhere and you can’t find it. This happens to all of us sometimes, but maybe it’s happening to you alot. Some kids who stutter do this too.

 

3. Or maybe you want to talk about lots of things at once. If this is true, then maybe “um” is helping your brain sort through all your ideas and get them organized. Maybe you have your thoughts organized, and the “um” helps your brain put all those ideas into grammatically correct sentences.

 

4. It seems to me that you are trying very hard to talk more smoothly. I wonder if you are changing your words or sentences when you feel a stuttered sound. For example, some kids who stutter will do this:  if they want to say, “I’m going to my friend’s house for a while” and they discover the word “to” is hard to  say, they will revise the sentence right in the middle of saying it and hear themselves say something like, “I’m going t-outside for a while.” Kids who use this strategy sometimes find that starts happening automatically. They don’t plan to change what they were saying; revising their sentences just becomes an automatic behavior that happens really fast before they even know they are doing it.

 

5.  Soooooo…..

        If  your “ums” and  pauses are because of stuttering, then, we want to spend most of our time on speech practice.

        If your “ums” and  pauses are because some  language activities are difficult, then, we want to be sure to help you turn your thoughts into words more easily while we practice easier speech.


Let’s talk about this more at each visit. I want to be I understand what you are doing, thinking and feeling about your speech.

Thanks,

Judy

 

 

 

3/8/14

Free Workshop for Schools


     This is the text for a 3-hour workshop for Speech Language Pathologists in the schools. The slides are "Workshop Slides" at (this has been removed.) 
      Thank you very much for inviting me to your school to talk about stuttering. Let’s begin by watchingStuttering for Kids by Kids. There is a link to this video later in the side presentation.

 In 1997 my family and I moved and it was then that I decided to limit my private practice to stuttering. I was trying to continue in speech language pathology while learning to live in a new location and parent a toddler. I  became an ASHA Board Recognized Specialist in 2000. This new specialty was renewed every three years with continuing education credits and at least 100 hours/year of clinical work in stuttering. ASHA changed the name, requirements and renewal process in 2014. I am now called a Board Certified Specialist in Fluency and must renew every 5 years.

I am not a professor.   They know much, much more about stuttering than I do. What I hope to do in this brief, introductory workshop is to share a clinical perspective based on years of experience working with children who stutter. I have attended several National Stuttering Association conferences, published in the International Stuttering Awareness Day online conferences, read our ASHA journals and written a blog.  This is my present understanding of stuttering. I feel like the messenger. I'm hoping to  inspire you to learn more about stuttering and become more comfortable treating and advocating for the children who stutter who attend  your school.

Each student presents a new challenge. I revisit familiar material and look for research to support  all of my treatment recommendations. It almost never feels like I can use  a ‘one size fits all’ approach.  Because there were many days when I felt as if  I was reinventing the wheel, I started writing my thoughts down. In the beginning, these were published in Reaching Out, the newsletter of Friends: The Association for Young People Who Stutter.  I later compiled many of these articles in a self-published book called Becoming a Friend in 2002 and donated it to Friends. At that time, I was inspired by my friend Nancy Cohen and one of my students.  I felt the need to write again in 2008 and began a blog, Comments on Speech Therapy as a personal reference. It helped me to keep track of issues I wrestled with respect to different cases.  

Slide 3

This may be the most important concept in stuttering treatment. Stuttering is no one's fault. Stuttering appears to be a neurologically based disorder. Until a child develops anticipation anxiety, it can be fairly unpredictable. And so we need to be cautious about expectations for fluency. The moment of stuttering is something that we don’t understand. We do not know what causes the repetition,  prolongation or block. 

There is research linking  stuttering with length and complexity of spoken language, emotional reactivity, stability of the speech motor system and attention. Researchers think there may be subgroups of the disorder. Since I’m not the best person to talk about research studies, I’ll stop there and encourage you to choose a reference article that interests you from my blog  or from the references section of my therapy training manual.

Slide 5 

There are many valuable resources on the market. These are just the ones that I happened to use and are referenced in my own therapy manual. I just bought a brand-new therapy text by Yaruss & Reeves. It isn’t  listed here because I just haven't had a chance to read it yet.

Slide 6

Here are some additional excellent resources. The Stuttering Foundation produces a variety high-quality materials in multiple languages. Some are even available as free downloads. The National Stuttering Association is a support organization with chapters  throughout the United States. StutterTalk  is a podcast hosted by a speech language pathologist.  The Stuttering Homepage is a website with lots of materials and a link to the archived International Stuttering Awareness Day Online Conferences. Several years ago, I started a Google site as a personal resource. This is a link to one of the pages of that site. And finally, I write a blog called Comments on Speech Therapy .

Slide 7

I have been working on a speech therapy manual so that I can easily locate materials I find most helpful. Eventually, I hope to sell the workbook as a companion text for therapy and for school workshops. It needs alot more work before I can do that, so I’ve provided draft copies by email and on CD for free. There are many good books about stuttering on the market that stand alone as wonderfully thorough resources and I definitely defer to those texts.

I’ll be adding  a section about self advocacy to my manual soon because I recently created a classroom presentation. You can find it in the lesson ideas page of my website.  Students occasionally write a report about stuttering for school, but  never has one of my students been willing to make a presentation – until this year. One gifted and courageous student asked how to put one together for  a 5th grade class. We spent many sessions talking about it. He blended his own thoughts and style with some of my input to create a truly collaborative project.


Slide 8  - 10 minute group activity

Slide 9 (therapy manual page 40)

This slide reminds us that typically fluent speech is complex. 1.) When a person has an idea, the brain has so much to do!  2.) It selects words using the phonology (including the local accent) of a language. The words are organized in sentences using  the grammatical rules of the his language and situation.  And let’s not forget  intonation, loudness and turn-taking choices. All of this is presented in a socially appropriate manner. Nonverbal behavior such personal space, gesture and eye contact will accompany the verbal message.  3.) A motor plan will  program the body to produce pitch,  loudness, co-articulation and breath groups for phrasing, syllable- and word- emphasis ...all at a very fast speeds! 4.) The idea, the language and the motor plan will coordinate into an action sequence that can even withstand environmental interruptions!  5.) All of this is monitored within and without our awareness.
Of course many other important systems need  separate diagrams.  For example, listening skills  are important because some researchers feel auditory processing maybe implicated in stuttering.

Slide 10

Here are a few handy links for a review of speech production

Slide 11

This slide reminds us that stuttering is also complicated. On page 46, we see one theoretical basis for treatment. The point here is that stuttering is now considered a disorder influenced by many possible factors. As we think about the child sitting with us, we wonder how various parts of this model may apply to that child. Immediately, we begin to question if asking a child to reduce percentage of stuttering is realistic given that so many other variables influence the presence of stuttering.

Slide 12

 Let's think about how we can update therapy. Back when I was in college, we learned to count stuttered words and  praise children for reducing frequency of stuttering.  Now we must consider how this approach could foster guilt, fear and shame. Stuttering is a neurological in nature and potentially affected  by many other issues, some of which are clearly beyond our control. How often are we ourselves aware of co-articulation when we talk!

Yet, we ask children to change how they talk and thereby reduce stuttering.  In response, some children discover that  avoidance is an effective way to stop stuttering. You can’t stutter if you don’t talk.  Children can also avoid sounds and  words, by using synonyms or otherwise revising their message. Other children discover secondary behaviors that seem to make talking easier. The child with negative feelings about stuttering can find ways to hide it or fight it.


     On the other hand, if we encourage children to examine their speech and how it affects them, I believe we have the opportunity to prevent the development of a larger communication problem. We can teach children about speech and language, about stuttering in a non judgmental way, options for change and owning the process of improved communication.  What does this all mean?
Slide 13
Some people describe stuttering as an ice berg. Above the surface of the water we see a very small portion of the iceberg. This portion is the bumpy speech. Below the surface of the water is a much larger portion of the iceberg and represents the feelings and thoughts that are hidden from view but has the potential to become a significant portion of the stuttering problem. For the child who stutters, these feelings translate into behaviors such as avoiding class participation, avoiding the telephone and enduring teasing and bullying that an adult may or may not witness. Also below the surface are feelings of failure when parents ask why children will not use speech strategies in daily life. There is a parent who writes a blog called  Voice Unearthed who addresses these kinds of problems.
Slide 14
I'm not too sure why I placed this slide here. Perhaps it is because now that we have upgraded our understanding of stuttering, we can think about how we treat it from the very earliest years. We begin with genetics because research presumes there is a predisposition  to stutter. Furthermore, as with other conditions, environment plays a role. The child with speech language planning and production weaknesses, the child with greater emotional reactivity and difficulty with self regulation, the child who experiences difficulty with communication, and the child who reacts negatively to the stuttering may have a more difficult experience with stuttering.  Of course I am simplifying. Exactly how one or more of these factors influence one another is a mystery. We do not know the cause of stuttering but we have some ideas about how it might become a persistent and disabling condition for some children.
Slide 15
For additional information about treatment of  developmental stuttering in preschoolers, please refer to the pages listed on the slide. Please note that I have not included the Lidcomb Program.  I am not trained in that protocol and feel I should not comment it.
Slide 16
If we are not going to ask children to reduce stuttering what are we going to do? Well, teach them strategies to help reduce oral-motor tension, help them to understand their own communication needs and the process of change, and help them feel confident about saying what they need to say when they need to say it. By the way, this does not mean speech-language pathologists stop counting stuttered words. But it is no longer our sole or even our top priority. We pursue easier speech, positive affect and productive thinking regarding the child's communication needs. This means that we measure and treat speech-motor, cognitive  and affective issues in our therapy activities. 
Slide 17
demonstration of reduced rate, phrasing, easy onset, gentle voluntary stuttering, freezing, pullout, cancellation, natural prosody, non-verbal communication, confidence; comment that these strategies can feel more awkward than stuttered speech
Slide 18
Children 8 and older can talk about typical speech, stuttering, acceptance, avoidance and concomitant disorders in a more explicit way. You already do this in treatment for other communication problems. You take care to consider the unique needs of each individual student and you can do the same for children who stutter. Please refer to the many inexpensive and wonderful training DVDs produced by the Stuttering Foundation for more information. Also there are brand new books about teasing and bullying at the National Stuttering Association website.
Slide 19
You already know how to use a hierarchy for learning other speech language behaviors. I don't know of any skill that can be learned overnight and yet parents and teachers expect immediate carryover of new speech skills. Why is this?  I once had a conversation with a parent who worked as a school aide and who did not know I was a speech language pathologist. She said she thought speech therapy was a fraud because the children she saw were not improving speech skills in the classroom!! We need to remind others that any skill takes time to learn and it is no different for children in speech therapy.
Speech strategies and counseling are explained on Stuttering Foundation DVDs. Participation in social and academic settings can reference the literature on pragmatic language. If you read the stories children tell in (FREE) newsletters published by the Stuttering Foundation and the National Stuttering Association, you will learn about the recurring issues specific to children who stutter. If you are an ASHA Certified SLP, you can join Special Interest Division 4 for more information about stuttering. Please tell others about the free workshop you are attending right now. The slides and this text are post on my website.
You simply don't need to be a rocket scientist to understand and empathize with the child with a speech problem for which he/she has experienced teasing, bullying and communication breakdown.
Slide 20
Here are resources for addressing attitudes and emotions of children who stutter.
Slide 21
In conclusion I think we have a choice:  we can continue to focus on counting stuttered words and blame children for a neurological difference OR we can focus on the larger picture.
Thank you.   Judy




12/30/13

Thank You


 I hope that 2014 is a year in which your children are safe, healthy, and talking with self-confidence. You have supported your children in a world that values speed and efficiency over patience and attention. Thank you for being the change.

 Five wonderful challenges took my time this fall:

1.             I spoke to a class of graduate students at the University of Connecticut. The topic was treatment for stuttering in preschool children.

2.             I was a guest on the National Stuttering Association Family Radio show. We discussed the relationship between the speech-language pathologist and family.

3.             I facilitated a workshop for teens at the National Stuttering Association Family Day at Boston University.

4.             I presented a two-hour workshop for a local school district. 

5.            Nina Reeves, MS, CCC-SLP, BRS-FD of Stuttering Therapy Services/Seminars, PLLC, spoke to the Maine Speech Language and Hearing Association and  I was there. Local workshops about stuttering are rare and Nina is one of the best therapists in the country.

All of this prompted me to reflect on my 30+ years as a speech-language pathologist.  It's been hard work and wonderfully rewarding. I've watched changes in education and health care reduce access to stuttering therapy and live continuing education workshops.  My response in 2014 will be to assemble a workbook for free regional, small-group workshops.

 Thank goodness the Stuttering Foundation and the National Stuttering Association  continue to inform and support us. I recommend you take a listen to StutterTalk as well, where you will find podcasts representing a variety of opinions about stuttering with Peter Reitzes as a polite and unbiased host.  These outstanding organizations deserve our gratitude. Let us support them in 2014 and beyond.

Happy New Year!

 

Judy

9/3/13

The Arm Bump - Revised


This is a revised version of the blog post from  3/18/09. 



Here is a popular activity that helps fluent speakers understand a little bit about what stuttering is like. I led a group of about 20 teachers in this exercise.  I expected it would be the most effective way to engage them at the end of a school day. And we only had 30 minutes.

I began by asking them all to take out their #2 pencils. Seriously.

          Each teacher chose a partner sitting beside them. One partner wrote her name several times on a piece of paper. The other partner bumped the writer's arm several times as she was writing. The bumping needed to vary in pressure and timing so that the writer could not predict when it would happen or how it would feel. Teachers were laughing, talking,  and grumbling about messy writing....the first objective of the afternoon had been accomplished - they were engaged.


          Facilitated discussion followed: how did they like the writing? How did their fingers, hands, wrists, arms, shoulders or any other parts of their body react to being bumped? How did they respond emotionally... any anticipation anxiety? Did they try prepare for the bumping?

         This activity elicits physical tension in the fingers and hands of the writer. People tend to grip their pencils more tightly in anticipation of and in reaction to being bumped. They feel a range of emotions: annoyance, frustration, loss of control. One writer spontaneously grumbled, "I give up." I wondered – give up what? Trying to write smoothly or to write at all?

People who stutter tend to stutter when saying their own names, which can be very embarrassing. This is why the writers were asked to write their own names. They write for several minutes so as to experience the relentless nature of the bumping. Yet, after 5 minutes, they have the luxury of returning to their original state of fluent writing. Facilitated discussion guides the conversation to how a person responds to stuttering.


          In the 10 minutes reserved for questions, someone asked, "What can teachers do to help a child who stutters?" and I knew I had missed an important objective. The next presentation must include copies of Straight Talk for Teachers from the Stuttering Foundation of America for every teacher. We all still want a "How to..." list of directions. Please visit http://www.stutteringhelp.org/ for specific tips for the classroom.


          Update: 1.) Tell the bumpers to offer advice to writers during the activity, like “Take your time.” 2. ) After one partner writes and one partner bumps, ask the bumper what she observed in the writer. What did she think the writer was thinking and feeling. How did she think the writer was coping with having her arm bumped. Then, do a reality check. Ask the writer what she was actually thinking, feeling, and doing.

8/26/13

Back to School Preparations for Children Who Stutter



When I walked to a nearby shopping center this week, the parking lot outside the office supply store was extraordinarily busy.   Inside, children strolled up and down the aisles chattering about new classrooms and selecting school supplies. It was back-to-school shopping time.

The beginning of a new school year brings with it an abrupt lifestyle change. We can help children transition from the casual summer months to the more rigorous academic calendar by making small changes several days before school begins. The National Center for Learning Disabilities suggests[1]

1.      re-establishing bedtime routines before the start of school,

2.      preparing a location and schedule for doing homework,

3.      collecting and organizing needed supplies,

4.      reviewing basic academic material,

5.      building excitement for school, and,

6.      reading books together about going back to school.

 The child who stutters has an even longer to-do list.  She has the added responsibility of

1.      educating her new teacher(s) and peers about stuttering,[2]

2.       planning new communication goals, and,

3.       role-playing options for how to cope with teasing.

I read through print copies of newsletters I’d saved over the years in search of tips for going back-to-school. These newsletters from Friends[3], The National Stuttering Association[4] and The Stuttering Foundation[5] are priceless resources for family-friendly information. They are filled with brief, understandable articles by children, parents, and professionals.  I was thrilled to find that back issues were available on the organizations’ websites.  

 A few back-to-school activities showed up repeatedly: writing a letter to the new teacher(s), planning a class presentation, and dealing with teasing. The National Stuttering Association had a brochure about Stuttering and Reading Fluency also.  I was grateful this information was so easy for families to locate and download. In this article, I’d like us to think about skills and attitudes that may be preconditions to accomplishing any of these self-advocacy activities.

 The child feels respected.  I have listened to some children, with and without speech/language differences, talk about school as an intimidating institution in which expectations feel overwhelming and dehumanizing. When school personnel view students in terms of performance data, I understand why children hide their stuttering. A former student of public school speech therapy writes,By counting each stuttered word or reporting specific moments of dysfluency in the classroom, I would argue that this places an unnecessary burden on the young stutterer. I have been lucky to witness the extraordinary work of numerous special educators who resist this pressure. Take it from my firsthand experience, educators are able to make a lasting impact by working closely with their student without quantifying his or her communicative performance.”[6] I think a child will need to feel the warmth of personal concern from a teacher before starting a conversation about stuttering.

The child can discuss thoughts, feelings and behaviors. Most moms of older children tell me they seldom talk about stuttering. Parents of preschoolers worry that saying something will make the stuttering worse.  I sympathize. Inviting children to talk about stuttering is a delicate process and I’ve had many mishaps trying to talk about ‘the elephant in the room.’ I’ve had students cry, change the topic, act silly or aggressive, or stare at me silently when I ask them specifics about their speech and experiences with communication.  Stuttering is an intimately personal topic and should be approached carefully. Peter Reitzes experimented with humor by asking children to write funny laws such as ”Anyone who tells a child who stutters to ‘slow down’ will have to walk around all day with his or her shoelaces tied together.” This humor helped move children into discussions of how to educate and advocate. “Creating new laws for people who stutter proved to be a valuable tool for discussing stuttering in an open, fun, and productive manner.” [7]

I don’t anticipate much progress in fluency therapy until a child and family can take a step back and observe stuttering with a cool head and forgiving heart. Desensitization to the moment of stuttering is, in my opinion, essential. It’s an issue that resonates across sessions and communication goals. It impacts multiple components of a comprehensive speech therapy program. Negative emotional reactions to stuttering create a fog, clouding our senses, preventing a clear perception of reality and blinding us to creative solutions.

So…

If a child is developing sense of empowerment and can talk about his communication needs, then speech therapy can confront the issues children who stutter encounter at school.

Quick, verbal self-defense is especially difficult for children who stutter.  Even the cleverest come-back can be too difficult to say right when it’s needed the most. So alternate ways of coping with teasing are important.

Listeners don’t know stuttering. Teachers and peers will need some information. If a child would like to write a letter to her teacher, there are examples on the Friends website.[8] The August 2010 issue has Approaching Your Teacher About Stuttering by Elizabeth Mendez[9] who writes, “Think about a fresh start and consider being open about something about you that has made you become the amazing and strong person you are today. Consider sharing with your teachers your stuttering and for those who can do the extra mile, educate them with resources.” Resources are free at the National Stuttering Association website including the comprehensive brochure “What Teachers Need to Know to Help Children Who Stutter.” The Stuttering Foundation has a booklet, DVD, brochure, and new storybook about teachers. I recommend that a parent be proactive as well, arranging frequent parent-teacher check-ins.

Some children may want to give a class presentation about stuttering with the help of their speech language pathologist. The National Stuttering Association and the Stuttering Foundation furnish guidelines for putting such a presentation together.  The following issues of Reaching Out have examples:  

A Proud Mom’s Story by Sue Parisi (Sept-Oct 2008)

Does Anyone Have Any Questions? By Ellie Hooey (Jan-Feb 2009)

Telling the Class by Francine J Bliss (March-April 2010)


Children who stutter are teased.  Constance Dugan has a very thoughtful article to accompany her “Teasing Inventory for School-Age Kids Who Stutter” in the 2006 International Stuttering Awareness Day Online Conference[10]. She spends a few minutes of every speech therapy session filling out the teasing inventory. Repetition helps children get comfortable with the process. She finds that the scale format helps children to respond and teaches them about intensity. “It is important to recognize not only different feelings but different intensities. For example, ‘annoyed’ reflects less distress than ‘furious’.”  The few, carefully crafted, short-answer questions “communicate the old advice: Honor your feelings but monitor your actions. Following these up by “How did you feel then?” can help kids become aware that they have some power to reduce their own suffering.”

Gail Wilson Lew’s article “Stuttering and Teasing” in the Nov-Dec 2009 Reaching Out reminds us why children may not seek help for teasing. She writes, “One day, in 9th grade Spanish class, the boy behind me started to pull on my pony tail. I did not want to turn around because I was afraid I would get in trouble with the teacher. I was also reluctant to tell the teacher, because I would then have to speak up and explain: thus, the possibility of stuttering and embarrassment.”  Later in the article she explains, “A child who stutters does not want others to know that he stutters, because he does not want to be ‘different.’ He wants to be accepted. A lot of pressure may be lifted if a child lets people know that he stutters and does not try to hide it.”

Reading aloud and reading assessments can be demoralizing. I appeal to everyone who reads this article to download the brochure “Stuttering and Reading Fluency: Information for Teachers.” The national initiative to promote reading is admirable. However, it is placing excessive pressure on children who stutter. “Reading aloud can be quite stressful for those who stutter, mostly because they are worried about how others might react to their stuttering.” Also, “a child should not be penalized for moments of stuttering when assessing reading fluency. Fluency of speech is not the same as fluency of decoding.”[11]

 I agree that children, in partnership with parents and educators, can advocate for their communication needs.  I also think that advocacy is predicated on healthy communication attitudes and sensitive support from others. If teasing crosses the line and becomes bullying, my blog of 9/6/12 “Bullying Prevention and Intervention Laws Could Help Children Who Stutter” may prove useful.

            I wish you lots of fun friendships, fond memories and academic success as you embark upon another school year!


Judy




[1] The National Center for Learning Disabilities, 8/17/13, “Six Ways to Get Your Child Back into the Learning Groove,” e-mail newsletter, the six items are paraphrased, www.ncld.org
[2] According the Bill of Rights and Responsibilities of People Who Stutter, “A person who stutters has the responsibility to... 1.understand that listeners or conversation partners may be uninformed about stuttering and its ramifications…”  International Stuttering Association http://www.isastutter.org/what-we-do/bill-of-rights-and-responsibilities
[3] Reaching Out, Friends: The Association of Young People Who Stutter www.friendswhostutter.org
[4] Family Voices, The National Stuttering Association, www.westutter.org
[5] The Stuttering Foundation www.stutteringhelp.org
[6] Jack McDermott. “Speech Therapy in Public Education Settings: A Former Student’s Perspectives”, Family Voices Third Quarter 2012 p. 7 (broken link)
[7] Peter Reitzes, “It Outghta Be a Law!” Reaching Out, October-November-December 2005.
[9] Reaching Out July /Aug 2010 (broken link)
[10] Constance Dugan (2006) “Teasing Inventory for School Age Kids Who Stutter” International Stuttering Awareness Day Online Conference http://www.mnsu.edu/comdis/isad9/papers/therapy9/dugan9.html
[11] broken link
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